Which one would drive him insane more? plese help !?

I find myself pissed of more when she is online and doesn't say anything rather than being off. It gets my brain running all over the place trying to answer: "Is she ignoring me? What did I do? Did something happen? Does she have somebody that she is talking on the phone with or have somebody over at her house at the moment, someone more important than me? etc... The brain will wonder.