Question for skateboarders.....?

Im an 18 year old male, I ride a 8" board. Its a Girl if that matters lol. I can ollie, and ollie to manual. Thats it. I can fakie ollie and thats it. I cant BS 180 ollie or FS, I cant half cab, I cant shuvit or pop shuvit. I CAN kickflip on a deck with no trucks or wheels on it...wtf. I can do those 4/5 times. with decent height (for no trucks). What do...what do...I really want to learn how to kickflip or heelflip on a board, stationary or in motion idc lol. How long did it take you guys to learn kickflips and heelflips from day one of skating. Please answer I wanna get a feel for how slow I actually am. (btw I have strong ollies when I ollie ppl think Im actually pretty decent until i try a flip trick, I can ollie a 5 stair now 5/5 times no fear or bailing and I can ollie a good 2 feet high or more (waist high, maybe more than 2 feet lol) i can ollie while moving really fast too i thought by the time my ollies were strong id be good. but yea plz help guys.